Michael always had a list—his “non-negotiables.” His future partner had to be ambitious, emotionally mature, financially stable, spiritually grounded, and fluent in his love language. He believed high standards would protect him from heartbreak. But over time, every woman he dated left. They all said the same thing: they felt judged, not loved. One night, after another failed relationship, he stared at his reflection and wondered—was he seeking love or conducting interviews? We all crave meaningful connections, but in our…